In my dozen plus years as a swinger, I've had a lot of experiences with group sex. Lots of threesomes, lots of foursomes, lots of moresomes... but... some of the hottest experiences of them all have been my 4 group experiences that involved bisexual men. In your average threesome or foursome, the girls are all over one another, but if there are multiple guys involved, they go to great lengths to avoid touching one another. Even when it comes to double vaginal/anal penetration (which is just about impossible to do without ANY physical contact between the guys), a lot of guys are freaked out putting their junk in such close proximity to another guy's junk, and go to great lengths to minimize contact. Apparently it hasn't occurred to them that "your junk touching another guy's junk as you are both sticking your penis in a hot chick" does not make you gay. It's that "as you are both sticking your penis in a hot chick" part that's operative in the whole "not being gay" bit.
When there are bisexual guys in the mix... there's none of that awkward shifting about in avoidance of boys-touching-boys... incidental touching is not only not avoided, it is enjoyed and encouraged! And, with no limitations on who can do what with whom, it can turn into a wildly sexy no holds-barred free-for-all, which, let me just tell you, is HOT. And, frankly, to me, seeing tab A inserted into slot B is sexy as hell, no matter which gender slot B belongs to :P
I've always hoped to repeat those experiences again, but given that that was contingent upon me dating another bi guy who was open to a threesome with another guy, there was a good chance that would NEVER happen again. I've only dated one bi guy before, and I figured there's a better than average chance that the next guy I fall for won't be bi. Or won't be a swinger. Or both. And it occurred to me that it was silly for me to wait for the chance that maybe someday the stars would align (or not) to get me in bed with a couple of bi guys. I'm an attractive intelligent swinger with an account on SexSite, it shouldn't be too difficult for me to find two attractive willing bisexual guys for a threesome if that's what I want, right?
Right??
