I've been seeing TheLibrarian for about a month and a half now, and so far, things are going swimmingly. We're still in non-exclusive land for the time being, but are really enjoying our time together. He is, as I've previously mentioned, still very fresh out of his marriage, and not settling immediately into another relationship is probably a wise idea. In addition to seeing me, he's been seeing another woman who's married and in an open polyamorous relationship, which makes for an interesting dynamic. I don't really see her as 'competition' in the sense that he's dating us both and trying to decide which of us he wants to "pick" for an exclusive long term relationship - as this other woman isn't available for that. He's not endeavouring to date anybody else, as between me and this other woman, he's got his hands quite happily full.

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